I came across this article in the Ladies Home Journal and I thought I should share it here with other women who also sometimes wonder what men want in a relationship.
Well…here it is:
- Men want to be married. In a recent Gallup poll, more teenage boys than girls said they planned to get married in the future, and seven out of 10 adult males have already walked down the aisle. They also want kids. More than 90% of guys say they plan to have children one day.
- They’re not in a hurry. The typical groom these days is age 27, compared with 23 in 1960. David Popenoe, the co-director of the National Marriage Project, says that many men have parents who’ve split up, so they’re waiting longer to make sure they don’t make a mistake.
- Pretty face is not the most important. Robert Glover wrote No More Mr. Nice Guy. He says what your man really wants is for you to think he’s attractive.
- Successful wife. In one study, nearly all the men said they wouldn’t be threatened if their spouse made more money. They’d be proud.
- The most important thing guys are looking for is a soul mate. According to the National Marriage Project, some 94% of men say they want to marry someone they connect with emotionally.